Today post is about my journey. I guess the title speak it all. I will talk about my stories, journey for being a university student and last but not least, big day for me - Convocation. Hope you guys won't feel bored about this because today post's words might be slightly more than the ordinary post. No worries, I will included some of the photos that I'm took during my convocation. If you're one of my loyal reader, here are some stories that you might not know about me because I never mentioned in my blog. Maybe you can understand me more by reading this post. =)
Until Form 4(16 years old), I was selected into Science Class. It separate me and my friends because all my friends were falls into Art Class. Suddenly I feel kinda lonely for couples of day, luckily I manage to make some good friends and now they are my BFF. My parents always hoping me I can get into Science class because my Father think Add Maths was quite important. As a Chinese, you need to good in Math subject. No offence, this is what I used to heard from the adults since I was a kid. Yes, I'm suck at Math. Although my Add Math never been good result, but at least I try not to failed it.
Time flies, decision making during end of Form 5(17 years old) was essential. I need to decided my own path. I feel glad that my parents doesn't really give me too much of pressure. My mum just asking whether I want study Degree programme or just start working. First thing comes to my mind, of course I WANT TO STUDY!! I hope study can give me more basic knowledge instead of just fresh plain paper(no working experience).
Don't get me wrong. The purpose that I blog about this not means how great am I now. I just want to let my readers know, "BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, DON'T LET ANYONE TO TAKE YOU DOWN." In our life, there are sure a lot of people wish to see you failed instead of success. Human are selfish, if they don't get it, they don't want you to get it too. Trust me, once you achieve something big, all those haters who ever backstab and look down on you will eventually pretending as your BFF. Well, of course, don't be so arrogant. My father always told me sometime you achieved something you thought you're in top of the pyramid, but you never know maybe tomorrow people might even higher position than you!
1. Tell your parents about your final decision, don't make it to the last
No matter you want to study or work, at least just inform your parents about your decision. Your parents never know about your thinking unless you voice it out. Sometime they thought you're agree when you remain silent. One of my friend actually don't want to study in fact he got no interest at all. However, eventually he get into University because he didn't tell his parents about his decision. At the end, his result getting worst semester by semester and caused extend on his Degree.
2. Study Smart / Study Hard
You might always heard many senior saying this, but did you really know about the story behind? I'm not a smart person, so I choose study hard. I'm that kind of good in memorise person. I will started to study 1 week before the final exam and I will memorise all those notes. Of course, sometime you need to be smart a bit. When lecturer is giving tips or emphasize the subject or syllabus during lecture class, I will mark "" on my notes so I can focus on this during revision time. Whenever lecturer said this is not important or just read through these few slides, I will directly put "" on these respective notes so I no need to study again for this. It will save a lot of time during your revision you know? Imagine 5 useless slides for each chapter and you got 12 chapters, you can save your time and save the space in your brain for minus the 60 slides.
3. Work Hard / Play Hard
We always heard people said when you work, work hard, when you play, play hard right? Yes, I'm totally agree to this! Not saying in order to achieve excellent result, you need to avoid party life and just concentrate on your study. It will eventually driving you crazy and giving yourself a lot of pressure. This might be one of the factor that student suicide tragedy happened. When you having free time, go out with your friends for movies or chit-chating, don't give yourself too much of pressure. On the other hand, if you will be having exam very soon, stop all the fun activity and focus on the revision. [Unless you're born to genius or smart, so you can be lazy]
4. Choose your Major according to your interest and expertise. Don't listen to others
I personally choose Electronic Commerce as my major because I love Internet and this is my interest. Guess what? Most of my friends are from Finance, Marketing, Management, Financial Engineering course etc. However, I didn't change my course because of them because I knew among all the courses, I can only do best in E-Commerce. I found out some people doesn't have a clear idea of which major should they choose, so eventually they just follow friend's decision. Until the end, they failed their test, doing bad in their assignment etc. I knew some of your parents might mentioned to you before 'interested can't brought you money' 兴趣找不到吃 It might be your interest but it might be not logical or something. For my case, I want to choose Fashion Design as my major during secondary school moment. I actually talk about this with my mum and she gave me a lot of advice. After I listens to her carefully so at the end I choose another course.
5. Choose your path by your own. Don't blame others but yourself when you're failed
You should be the one who handling your own path. Don't be silly to ask others to choose for you. You may ask about your friends and family for their opinions but that is for your reference, not help you to make decision. I hate when somebody have no idea and ask other people to help them decide, at the end they just blame you and without saying thank you. Have you ever think of when you're successful, who are the one who received the biggest benefits? YOU! So why you blame other when you're failed? Maybe you are the who didn't do the great job isn't it?
Before I met my parents, these 2 fellas (Samuel & TK) gave me this kawaii Minnie Flower. Arigato♥
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My Convocation 2014